Top 10 Things Not to Say to Someone in a Wheelchair plus The Best Responses from Wheelchair Users: The fine folks at the Shepherd Center got this right! 1.You’re an inspiration! Response: “You’re easily inspired.” 4.I broke my leg. I know exactly what it feels like to be in a wheelchair. Response: “The bowel program is the worst, right?” 8.Since you’re in a wheelchair, you can’t have sex, right? Response: “Well, not with you.” See more great comments at: http://www.shepherd.org/news/releases/2013/12/top-10-things-not-to-say-to-someone-in-a — with Lizzy Pritchett and Dottieh Evah.